In the book Harvey writes “The man who truly has feelings for you will give you a title.
That title is his way of letting everyone within the sound of his voice know that he is proud of being with you and that he has plans for you.” On a recent visit to Oprah, Harvey tells the story of going deep sea diving with his wife.
After six months he should introduce you to people as his woman, girlfriend, lady, fiance, wife or something.
A big part of the problem with dating is that men and women just don’t understand each other. Well comedian Steve Harvey has written a book to clear up some of the confusion women often have when it comes to men.
In “Act Like a Lady, Think Like a Man”, Harvey outlines what men really think about love, relationships, intimacy and commitment and advises women to lay out her standards from the beginning.
He’s not into diving so he instructed his security guard to to swim around and keep an eye on her.
The dive masters were instructed that if his wife did not come back up, everyone was to get into the water to look for her.
Along the way, they will receive dating advice from Ward and viewers are made privy to Ward’s rules for dating.
Here are a few: No guy wants to hear that you set your ex-boyfriend’s car on fire (à la Bernie in “Waiting to Exhale”) after you caught him cheating. But if you did do it, no need to tell the new guy that on the first date! If you can work on your assertiveness and confidence, you will find a relationship with someone who respects you. A man who genuinely wants to spend time getting to know you will put in the effort.6. OK, this isn't a concrete rule, but the point is that you should not accept a date on Wednesday or Thursday for that weekend. This becomes diagnostic of how invested he is in you. If he is putting so little effort into your dating relationship, what will happen once he gets comfortable? If he asks you to come to him and has no game plan, he is just looking to hook up. He will not respect you if you give it up too soon. This, however, is not to say that they like a tease. Just like with children who will tell you they don’t want rules, but they function much better and are happier with them.7. After your relationship is more established, call him, but still limit how much you do call. If this is anxiety provoking, find some other way to spend your time. For the first couple of months, you should limit your physical intimacy. They think it is because they are not pretty enough, smart enough, successful enough or fun enough. It is overwhelming and can end a relationship before it starts. Hopefully, by this point, this goes without saying. It devastates so many women when a first date does not become a relationship.From the woman who is obsessed with getting married by age 25, to the woman who is hung up on “fixing” guys with emotional problems, Ward attempts to steer the women in the right direction with his tough love boot camp.