Shy women usually don’t have the same problems us guys do.I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.I’m going to start off with the basics so that even a guy who is a virgin and totally confused about dating, can be on his way to having a girlfriend. So I had basically thrown myself into a social situation where it’s the HARDEST to meet women if you’re a more introverted or intelligent guy. So if you want a girlfriend, then you’ll need to do something different. Looking back now, it’s no wonder why girls never showed any interest in me.
Meeting people at a business or networking event feels pretty easy when you’ve already gotten past the fear of rejection of talking to beautiful women who could reject you.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women. I want you to now imagine a girl or woman you have a crush on. Only after we find a girl physically attractive are we open to being even more won over by her personality, common interests, etc. It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.
If you’re sitting at home all day, then the rest of this article won’t help you much. I had a couple part time jobs where I met a dozen more. I’m sure you can’t think of a time when a girl you were totally physically not attracted to suddenly won you over with her sense of humour. For example, ever noticed how the woman is almost always a few years younger than the man in any couple? Because a woman who is younger was a lot more likely to have a healthy pregnancy in the distant past. It was true a few thousand and a few million years ago.
but when they say “shy” they probably mean the strong silent type of guy, not the nervous socially awkward type like I was.
In this article, I’m going to provide you with key pointers to getting the relationship you want.
The reason why I’m explaining to you how a man’s attraction system works is so you realize that attraction is not a choice. For men that stimulus is usually visual: long shiny hair, straight white smile, big innocent eyes, a curvy body, etc.
Now here’s where all this science becomes useful to you…
The attention of the tribe is a kind of psychic territory where we harvest the resources we cooperative apes need to survive.
He who controls the attention is high status and sexually attractive. When it fully sinks in, it will change the way you see the social world forever.
(Side note: Even though I often meet random girls in the daytime, I’ve accepted that the vast majority of these conversations will never lead to dating or a girlfriend. I had to learn how to become more comfortable with myself and comfortable connecting with other people. A cute face, nice breasts, round hips, soft skin, a certain walk.