After all, pretty girls are hit on all the time in real life. The only reason is because she has kids, or perhaps because she’s unattractive, or maybe she has some personal baggage.I’d say about 90% of the women on the dating websites I visit have kids. But dealing with the ex-husband who might be really possessive can be scary. I spent more time with the kid than I ever did with her. I didn’t have the time to learn about her, because I was too busy taking care of the kid. But when 90% of the girls online have kids, you’re basically relegating yourself to ONLY girls with kids.For example, the question, “Would you date someone shorter than you?
” Guys and girls naturally answer that oppositely, and that skews the test.
Then there are the dumb questions like, “Which way do you like to put the toilet paper roll?
A girl who cares about personality is suddenly encouraged to focus on looks first.
My bald head suddenly doesn’t look so charming when it’s juxtaposed next to a thousand pictures of guys with hair.
”But when you go online, it takes away your personality.
That really courageous way that you approached her in the coffee shop. The way you smiled at her, or made her feel comfortable and warm. Instead, she sees your picture, compared side by side with a hundred pictures of other guys.Now, I know that it seems cruel to favor girls without kids, but – I’ve dated single mothers before. Also, when a woman has a kid, it’s harder to find any time to learn who the woman is. I played with him, disciplined him, tucked him in at night, and read him stories – the whole thing. So when we finally hit a small bump in the road, the relationship crumbled. And with Christmas around the corner, I’m simply not ready to be a father figure AND Santa Claus.The girls online who don’t have kids usually have other baggage.” Needless to say, right now, I’m looking for a girl who is, I don’t know . ” Dating websites usually have twice as many guys as there are girls, so a new pretty girl with no kids will get bombed with tons of messages.Now, I know, lots of girls don’t really care about that. Ask any woman who has married a bald man, and they will say, “I never thought I would ever go for a bald guy, and then I met my husband and it’s the best thing ever!In my five years of being on dating websites, I’ve only gotten three messages that were initiated by women. When a girl joins a dating website, it’s a HUGE risk.