If you’re struggling with this, here’s a short list to help you go from a casual date to a serious mate (so lame, I know).
1) Be Independent Some “experts” say you should act unavailable.
It’s true that being overly available can seem desperate or unattractive, but the last thing you want to do is play dating games.
If you’re suffering from no-life syndrome, step back and ask yourself why you aren’t having fun on your own. Play the sport you like or pursue one of your interests. Insecure people push for serious relationships for the security it brings, and people can sense that.
If you drift apart, you know they were never going to commit and you saved yourself time, trouble, and heart ache.
Q: My date says it’s just casual, but acts like it’s serious?
The final milestone is when you know it’s official – whether you say it’s a serious relationship or not.
Unscheduled Time Together When you start hanging out together without making plans in advance, you know things are getting serious.
Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.
If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.
Meeting Friends Meeting each other’s social group is a big step.