a treatise on this or that, and that you’ve never forgotten your first actual girlfriend because gazing at her got you through algebra, then you just sketched out someone who would fit you.
Not a 6, 7, 7 and a 5 who averages out to an attainable 6.25.
You can, quite simply, totally sabotage your e Harmony experience and create a situation where the amount of activity you contribute becomes meaningless.
If you and an unattached woman in this habitat enjoy similar things, cross paths often, cultivate a friendship, outlast any novelty and still seek each other out, then that’s the option not to refuse.
First Run December 20, 1965 – July 6, 1973 (ABC Daytime) October 6, 1966 – January 17, 1970 (ABC primetime) September 10, 1973 – September 1974 (Syndication) Second Run September 4, 1978 – September 1980 (Syndication) Third Run September 15, 1986 – September 8, 1989 (Syndication) Fourth Run September 9, 1996 – September 1999 (Syndication) The Dating Game is an ABC television show.
So, on one hand, it is a numbers game in the sense that it rewards action.
There is a slight chance that if you go to bat in a baseball game 1,000 times, you will hit the ball the same number of times as if you went to bat 10 times, but it isn’t likely.
Not date them, get to know them; too often there’s a difference.
You meet friends through shared classes, teams, work or even a shared backyard fence, right?
I’m not suggesting you should walk around with this sketch seeking a woman who looks just like that.
On the contrary; the best way to see what people have to offer is to rid yourself of preconceived notions of who you want them to be.
The same thinking applies to your e Harmony experience. These first three choices severely degrade the quality of the presentation they are making to their matches.