You’ll just have fun in the moment and enjoy your interactions with him… everything that’s happened in your life, everything that is happening right now. What I’m saying is that you’re always in touch with your internal sense of OK-ness…
and outside of the moments you’re with him, you won’t really be thinking about him at all. you can be sad at a given moment and still know that you’re completely 100% OK.
Instead of sinking down deeper and deeper into a negative emotion and feeding into the mental drama, you will simply shift your attention to remembering that you’re OK, and in the grand scheme of things, there really is no problem.
The bottom line is this: Most people (men and women) spend their lives believing they have a problem (or multiple problems), then spend all their time and attention mindlessly chasing after solutions to their mind-created problems.
You won’t dream up some fantasy future that you want to come true.
You won’t obsess over what the guy is or isn’t doing. You’ll have no deluded beliefs that being with him will somehow make you happier, make you more complete, or make your life any better than it is right now. there’s no drama, no unresolved issues, no victim story, etc. even when things don’t go as planned, even when something upsetting happens, even when everything falls apart… I’m not saying you become a robot devoid of emotions.
For example, maybe you want to seduce a guy into your bed, but the underlying reason is because you don’t really feel attractive, and you think that successfully seducing him will prove that you are.
Or maybe you want to get a particular guy to chase you to prove to yourself that you’re worthy of pursuit (because you don’t believe you are). point is, if your goal in seducing a guy is to feel better about yourself, you’re going to be at a considerable disadvantage. Because you won’t be able to be carefree in the seduction…
Which brings me to the ultimate way to be stress-free throughout a seduction… Quiz If you fixate on one guy, you’re setting yourself up for a lot of stress.
On the other hand, if you have several desirable options, then you’ll find it quite natural to feel OK no matter what ends up happening with any one particular guy.
On the other hand, I’m sure you’ve been around people who don’t care whether or not they’re funny, but their way of being is just naturally funny…
so you end up finding them hilarious without any effort on their part. if you are desperate for it to work, you will embarrass yourself horribly trying to “act like” a seductress. Is your goal for him to want an exclusive relationship with you?
If you understand how a seductress thinks, views the world, and what her overall philosophy is, then you will probably automatically seduce people through your mindset alone…c ombined with the right moves, you’ll be an unstoppable force of nature. Is your goal to get out of the friend zone with a guy?