A dozen guys stood around the room, holding their drinks and leering. As awful as it may have seemed, I’m glad I handled it with dignity.No one had the guts to go up to the group of girls. Because it’s choices like those which have allowed me to become a stronger man even from the most horrible rejections.But if you read my last article, that doesn’t always happen. Or tell you that she’s not ready for a relationship when she really is, just not with you. They do it to protect their feelings and in their own minds, yours too.
One day I saw her with one of my ex, the first girl I fell in love and left me for one girl, the story repeated itself again, the one who was my gf left me for my ex, that was quite a blow for my ego.
Broke my heart and shattered my confidence falling deeper into drugs and alcohol almost becoming suicidal.
That’s why the only consistent measurable factor for being rejected is action. A woman who likes a guy wants to see him in person. They stay in denial and always try to reason that she may be secretly interested, despite her delays.
She doesn’t want to wait weeks or months and miss that opportunity. They pursue a girl endlessly without success and then get pissed off when things don’t work out.
I’m sorry to say, but it’s your fault if you ignore the signs and don’t focus on other women.
I don’t care if she texts you all day, every day, for weeks on end.
Maybe she was not in the right state of mind, maybe she didnt know you well enough, maybe she was just too nervous, etc Four to five years ago, I tried to kiss my now current girlfriend and she went "mmm... I remember because I think she was one of the first girls, if not the first, I tried to kiss. We barely kept in touch over the years, but for some reason we began dating recently. Now its also amusing because it went from me trying to get her to be my first kiss(she didnt know this) to her now thinking Im a dirty man whore who will break her heart by hooking up with her and you guys are saying that if i want to regain a girl's interest after she initially rejected me, then i should just talk to her whenever i run into her randomly, and try to ignore her? In the past few years, I have dated other girls and messed around with other chicks.
Over the years, she would hit me up, and I would say something then ignore her. not try to be friends with her or hang out with her? I did not purposely try to get her to like me or anything like that. If not, continue to ignore or delete her from your phone book. When I was in high school I was way too popular for my own good, every girl I wanted I had, until I met her.
I don’t care if she messages you first all the time. Use the 3 strikes rule You want to know if she likes you or is trying to reject you? If she doesn’t ever commit to hanging out, she’s not interested or serious enough. But as difficult as it can be, you need to learn to deal with rejection in a healthy, productive way. If she chooses someone else, she’s not a bitch or a slut for it. Do you think she’s suddenly going to change her mind after you berate her?