And men are much more visually stimulated than women are.
, because it gives them an impetus to really pursue women.
He has very low motivation for anything, and doesn’t get excited about very much except video games. When you look at his life, you can see that he doesn’t seem to have a “will” to do anything.
And if you look back at his childhood, you’d see that he was rarely affirmed in anything.
First, I believe that God created both men and women with sex drives. However, in general, men’s sex drives are more physically urgent.
If their bodies doesn’t get sexual release, their bodies will actually do it for them during the night periodically.
Even if you’re talking about resolving some conflict, do it in a positive way. Also, if you’ve had an affair in the past, or even if you were sexually active before marriage, your husband may feel that he can’t measure up.
And that can cause some men to stop being able to perform, because they’re nervous.
When men use porn, in general they masturbate as well.
And so it becomes quite likely that eventually they will stop desiring their wives in the same way.
He was rarely told by his dad that he was doing a good job.
And so he was never sure if any decisions he made, or any steps he took, were the right ones. To anyone on the outside he just looks extremely lazy, but I do think there’s more going on there. A man can have his masculinity scarred in other ways, too.
Now, it’s not just men who use porn; about 25% of women in my surveys had sought porn out as well.