These women, like the men and women who appear in pornographic magazines or movies, are carefully chosen for their seductive bodies and glamorous faces.You are being pitted against synthetic beauty, plastic surgery, and trick photography.
I believe they are correct in saying, “Well, that marriage never really was bonded, and therefore it could be annulled.” I don’t see anything wrong with that. Unfortunately, that term has gotten to be cheapened. I think couples should understand the emotional needs of each other. What is surrounding them that would cause them to feel the way they do? You don't have to be verbal, but start doing some things and surround him with love. We talk about sex and money, but it is just talking. Think of them in their home, especially with young children. I don't think any woman should have to submit herself to this kind of indignity. The wife and children are one part of their life; the girlfriends are another. If you know Jesus, you will live for Jesus, you will take on the characteristics of Jesus -- you will be teachable and humble and you will be filled with love and you will want to live a holy, godly life. God is always -- and I say this every time -- God is always on the side of restoration, not of breaking things up.
Back To Top He should put a stop, but I’m not sure nagging him is the way to do it. You hear 'love you, love you, love you, love you,' and it doesn't mean anything. That is one of the big things about marriage is communication. They have got these little kids all day long, or they are out working hard, too. I know in history, certainly in the continent, England, and other places, this seemed to be more common than we would like to think. But I don't think in a Christian situation that should be. Back To Top I question about that 'Christian' husband. Anyone who is as arrogant as this man, I don't think he has the Lord. He belonged to a church someplace, which doesn't mean a lot to me. He's always on the side of restoration, so if at all possible, that is what should happen, and perhaps you should give it a try.
I said to him, “When you were young, your father used to tell you [that] you were a loser, didn’t he? I’m going to insist on it, or else I’m going to consider this as construction desertion, and you have deserted me, and I’m going to leave you." I think on a thing like you can say, basically, he has deserted you. The answer is, no, you don’t tell all of your sordid past.
” He said, “Yes.” I said, “Let me tell you something. All you have to do is say, “I lived as a sinner, and I had a wild life.”.
Back To Top I think it would be appropriate to visit a gynecologist and see if you can't get whatever is necessary to deal with your problem.
I think a healthy marriage involves a healthy sexual relationship between man and woman. I think there is a joining together of mind and a joining together of spirit and a joining together of body.Prostate cancer and operations thereof render men impotent. However, your marriage goes on, and you can still have love and all kinds of affection. You can always pray together, and that is as important as anything.Back To Top The most powerful human instrument of sexual desire is the mind, not the genitals.He’s afraid to compete, because he’s afraid he’s going to fail. So he doesn’t start, and therefore he gets fired, therefore he doesn’t want to go try it again. I think the most important thing is compatibility in your faith -- that you both are going in the same direction. ” If one is out looking for money, and worldliness, and materialism and acquisition of possessions, and the other is trying to serve mankind and serve God, you’re going to constantly have struggles. You need to find somebody who has a similar background to yours, whatever that background is. Back To Top Unless an angel from Heaven comes and tells you to do it, don’t. You’d better do some checking with him and who he is, how many wives he had before you, what he’s into. She wants him, and I don’t why he left her, but whatever it is, she’s got first dibs. So why don’t you just kind of quietly move out of that relationship and go someplace else?He’s reacting to withdrawal from the pain of that situation. I had a young man that I dealt with some years ago, who was all down in the dumps. There must be some pastor or someone that you can turn to who would sit down and talk to him. This is a stupid thing, to throw away your marriage to sit at some computer keyboard and punch out things on a computer screen. So you need to have somebody that shares the dreams of life that you have. You will never be free from this lady, because she loves him, and she wants him. Back To Top God knows about it, and the Bible says, “As far as the east is from the west, that’s how far I’ve taken your sins from you.” It’s gone. The Lord talks about having your conscience cleansed from dead works that you might serve the living God.The trouble is this girl has got an attachment to him. Back To Top There are a lot of ways that you can say 'I love you.' look at his nonverbal communication. So many people don't try to understand the needs of the other party. They want some companionship, somebody who will share their joys and their griefs and talk. I have heard of people who have brought their girlfriends on a family vacation. Back To Top The bachelor parties are normally orgies. A lot of people get drunk and there are dirty jokes. Take my maidservant and you have a child by her.' That apparently was OK. If he keeps this up, you can't have your children exposed to marijuana and coarse language.