Ease your way into the relationship so you avoid losing yourself in it.
MORE: On Loving Yourself and Being More Confident If he’s in a bad mood or doesn’t feel like talking, leave him alone and let it be.
Most guys don’t like to talk about their issues the way women do.
Well, ladies, instead of blaming the guys, perhaps it’s time to examine some of the things you might be doing wrong on your dates: 1. A guy would sooner question a woman’s eating habits if she only eats a salad before he would question her diet when she eats a normal meal. If You Are Not Interested In Seeing This Guy Again, Don’t Let It Drag On. When you date a different guy all the time, you are depriving yourself of the opportunity to meet other guys. Remember, you must be independent before you can be dependent so go out with your girlfriends and have fun.
Make Sure The Guy Confirms Your Date Before 3pm The Day Of The Date. When you show up even ten minutes late, you are showing the guy that you do not value his time at all. Constant lateness is a terrible habit and very self-centered. Most of the time, the guy will call you after the date to ask you out again.
When a guy doesn’t confirm the date, he is – for all intents and purposes – showing you that he really doesn’t care about the date. A confident guy will not tolerate it too long and you will find yourself alone again. A guy’s character is not based on the amount of money he makes. He will question why you are so into him so early on in the date. If you are positive that it isn’t right, don’t avoid him.
If he did care, he would confirm the date and tell you that he was looking forward to seeing you. Do anything except wait by the phone to see if he calls. He might have forgotten the date or made other plans. However, if you are unavoidably late, call him to let him know you are running late. Asking a guy for his W2 is basically asking the guy never to call you again. Instead, feel free to tell him you had a nice time when the date ends. Don’t allow him to call several times and leave messages hoping he will go away or stop calling. Call him back, but soon into the conversation say, “I had a nice time, but I just don’t think we are right for each other.” The truth will hurt, but it’s the way it must be done.
I’ve been writing about relationships for a while now and can’t help but notice common themes that emerge over and over again in the questions we receive from readers.
No matter what stage of life, or what stage in the relationship.
) Again, stop looking at the things he isn’t doing and look at what he doing, and then acknowledge and appreciate him for it!
The more you show you appreciate him, the more he’ll try to please you. However, it’s in your best interest to try and be happy and positive. In general, we’re drawn to people who are happy and radiate a positive energy.
If you can get a handle on the things on this list, I guarantee you’ll notice your relationship drastically change for the better.